Never Look Back.

Never look back. But reach out a hand to help bring people forward.

I've learned alot in the past 2 years and the funny thing is the only thing I struggle with is people bringing up my past.
I have moments where I get totally overwhelmed and feel upset but then when I really think about it...theres nothing I can do.
I can't change my past and if people don't give you the time of day because of gossip and judgements and because their too ignorant to want to learn the truth...then really why the heck do I care?
I honestly don't need those people in my life and noone should have to be surrounded by people who treat you like that.

I'm very proud of myself because infact I learned a really good lesson yesterday. I've learnt it before but some lessons take a few tries to learn and hit you a little bit deeper each time.

Everyone has their own problems and I cannot rely on anyone but myself to help me through my own.
Sure I always have tons of friends and family for support, but of course, sometimes their not around, like yesterday, and I must find a way to deal with it on my own. And of course, I did.
I was upset for maybe a half an hour and then suddenly I was ok. I didn't need to talk to anyone, I didn't need to be around anyone, because i knew I would be alright.

 We get so caught up in our current situations and our problems when we forget that there are wayyyyy Bigger problems in the world. There have been people that have been abuducted and are still alive and doing well, raped, people who have been beatin up to the point where they can't breath and have recovered.
Everyone has problems...so what makes me any different?
IF people can go through all that and be alive and fine... then why can't I?

Life's too short to stress I tell ya.
I say this as a number one hypocrite because I am a stress maniac.
But I'm learning. How I reacted yesterday is proof.
Life's too short to be angrey with your family and not forgive.
It's too short to stay angrey at friends that you love dearly.
It's too short to not give people chances that you have feelings for.
It's too short to shut anyone out because your scared of the future.
It's too short to be angrey at all.

So seriously, go on and be happy!
I dare ya :p

XOXO

How to... become harmonized with the Universe.

SO. I have this day by day calendar with quotes revolving around the book 'The Secret' and every day i read one and immediately feel much more positive about my day.
The thing that I've realized over the last couple of days is that everyone has their own shit in their life. Everyone has something terrible that has happened to them in their past and has affected them in however way possible to help make them  become the person they are today. But, because of what we know from our past experiences, we judge our future, and we worry about the same thing happening again.
A friend said to me last night, "People are so afraid of the unknown that they waste their time worrying about it instead of just experiencing it".
That happens to be something I can completely relate to at this moment as I have been stuck upset about what might happen and who I might loose for some time now. I've been getting so worked up about something that hasn't even happened yet when I should be just loving what I have right now and living everyday not knowing what might happen. Who knows, maybe what I'm worrying about will never happen. Then I will have wasted my life instead of enjoying it and being happy with what I got.


The reason I'm bringing this up is because my 'Secret' quote of the day is sort of relevant to really waking up and becoming alive in the moment.
This is what it said, I hope it works for you as well as it did for me today xoxo <3

"Here is a simple, powerful process that you can do every day to bring yourself into positive harmony with the Universe and the law of attraction.


Sit down comfortably. Notice how you are feeling, and now relax your entire body. When you have relaxed your whole body, then relax it some more. Now relax it some more. And relax it some more! Repeat this deeper relaxing seven times, each time relaxing as much as you can. When you have finished, notice the dfference in how you are feeling, compared with how you felt when you began.


Now you are more in harmony with the Universe and the law of attraction!"


In other words...your alive!! Now go live your life!


xoxo