Happy Anniversary blog!!!
It's officially been a year since I started blogging! YEppe!
Now for my new readers, I deleted my old blogs because I felt as if I was starting to go down a continuous path with every entry. Which, may have appealed to you gossip-wise but it wasn't necessarily helping me solve any of my problems any faster.
As much as writing has always made me feel better, I've decided whenever I have any big problems I'm going to write it in my own personal diary, so that if anything is mistaken like it has been from what I have previously written, it won't matter because nobody will read it but me.
With that said, I am so thrilled that 2009 is over! Of course years and days are just a man-made concept but it's nice to think that you can now start fresh and leave the past behind you. At least for me it is :P.
I decided to start off my fabulous year with some new years resolutions. I'm normally not a big believer in them, as so many people these days don't follow through in what they say they are going to do, but I've decided that I'm not gonna let anything stop me from fulfilling these goals.
What's life without something to look forward to?
Plus, I think the reason people never follow through with their goals is because they make them too unrealistic or long-term and that is what leads to procrastination and then they never get achieved.
So here are my six, very realistic, short-term goals for 2010:
1) Read one book a week. Normally I would say that's unrealistic to most people but I'm a fairly fast reader so it shouldn't be a problem.
2) Save $110 a week. Put 60 towards short-term savings (such as to go on a yearly holiday) and 50 towards longterm savings (retirement)
3) Go to the gym 3 times a week.
4) Do singing exercise's 15 minutes a day before practicing songs.
5) Get Primerica and drivers license.
6) Do one thing a day that makes me happy.
I know I've preached this before but if you haven't yet discovered the concepts of the secret, then that should be at least something you should look into giving a chance for 2010.
Personally, I find the movie more effective then the book but try whatever learning technique works best for you.
It has changed my life completely with it's simple obvious concepts of how to get everything and anything you have ever wanted. I think the only thing I haven't mastered in getting what I want so far is the perfect man! :P Or at least someone to learn to love at the moment.
Every guy wants to either be single or says their confused and want to figure out their problems these days. Same old excuses.
You only live once and I really don't understand what could stop someone from just taking a chance and live every moment. So what if it ends terrible? So what if your not meant to be? You live and learn and who knows what you could be missing out on if you don't take that chance!?
I think the most annoying thing about finding someone these days is the whole "He's just not that into you" concept. Well he hasn't texted me so he must not be that into me. Or I made the first move so who knows if he was even into me to begin with? Or my favourite, ' Even though we've talked about it, he hasn't made a move since so he must not be into me".
Why must everything be a game? Why can't everyone be given a chance and then a yes or no answer when it's done? It's so simple you either had a good time and want to see where it will go or you didn't.
ANYWAYS, going back to the secret. If your not a very positive person, like I use to be, and want to be shown a way to help yourself, then just give it a try. The worst that can happen is that it does nothing for you and you've wasted an hour of your very lonnnnng life.
If theres anything I learned from 2009 it's that the only one that can help you is yourself. If you want to be rich, then make it happen. If you want to be given a promotion, then make it happen. If you want straight A's, then make it happen.
Here's to an amazing year filled with dreams coming true!
xoxox
